After a divorce, while you may not be ready to commit to a new relationship, many will likely arrive at that place sometime in the future.  Statistics, however, show second (or subsequent) marriages have a significantly higher percentage of failure than first marriages.   The internet is filled with many useful topics and issues to consider – well before you and your new significant other are ready to exchange vows.  In this cite, you will find many useful suggestions on how you can work together on ensuring a smooth(er) transition for both your families.  We hope that peace and continued wonderful new and old relationship can be deepened, however, after divorce.  

 http://www.helpguide.org/mental/blended_families_stepfamilies.htm